How To Give Yourself The Princess Treatment

This post is all about giving yourself the princess treatment.

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Giving yourself the princess treatment every day is not cringe, nor is it too much to do something nice for yourself.

Truthfully, I think that giving yourself the princess treatment is the highest level of self-love that anyone can show themselves.

Now I don’t know exactly what you’re going through, but I believe that every girl deserves the princess treatment, but one important factor we all must learn is that it first starts with us, doing it for ourselves.

Before you can demand the princess treatment from your man, your girlfriends or even from people you don’t know, you first have to show it to yourself, and this post is going to help you to do just that.

So what are you waiting for?

Cheers to spoiling yourself, without feeling guilty about it.

This post is all about how to give yourself the princess treatment every day

What does the “princess treatment” really mean?
The princess treatment is all about pampering yourself.

It’s adopting a mindset of deep self-compassion, kindness, and self-love.

It’s a:

• Lifestyle of self-improvement
• Having an emotional bond with yourself when the world around you is in complete chaos.
• A celebration of feminine energy

Why do some women struggle to give themselves the princess treatment? (Do you)

The number one reason that most women struggle with giving themselves the princess treatment is because they have a fear of being “too much”.

How many times have you avoided saying what’s on your mind, said “yes” when you meant “no,” or just accepted the bare minimum, thinking you don’t want to push people away?

You’re not alone.

Many women struggle with their self-worth in the efforts of earning it rather than knowing that it’s their natural right.

Here’s one thing to know: love, luxury and ease is your birthright, you don’t need to earn them.

Here’s how you can overcome the fear of being too much:

• Reframe “too much” as a strength
• Take up space when you step into any room
• Speak kindly to yourself
• Make yourself your number one priority

“Self-worth comes from one thing- thinking that you are worthy” -Wayne Dyer

Why should you start giving yourself the princess treatment?

If you’ve been on my blog before, you know that I love talking about feminine energy.

Giving yourself the princess treatment helps you to lean more into your feminine energy

It also sets the tone for how others treat you. But before you can get it from others, you have to first change the way you see and treat yourself so that the world around you can mirror your energy.

So start being so obsessed with yourself and you will see how your magnetism pulls people in lot your world.

It’s always what we believe in ourselves to deserve.

And this is why giving yourself the princess treatment is all about. It’s about honoring your worth and refusing to live in lack.

1. Go on solo dates

Dress up in one of your chic outfits and take yourself on a romantic solo date.

Solo dates are the perfect excuse to treat yourself like a princess without having to accommodate anyone else.

I mean, getting to choose the place you want to go, what you want to eat, or the experience you want.

So go get dressed up for you, order your favorite drink, sit in a cozy nook, and enjoy your own company.

You never know, you might meet someone while you’re out.

2. Romanticize your life every day

Give yourself the princess treatment by slowing down your day. 

Don’t wait around for the perfect moment or for someone else to bring romance to you.

Buy yourself flowers, go on a solo date, or have a cozy candlelit evening enjoying time with yourself fully.

Or take a short break if you’re feeling tired, to rest and rejuvenate.

I get a lot deeper into romanticizing your life in this post, ” How activating feminine energy helps to romanticize your life”.

3. Become that girl
Who loves herself unshakably.

That girl who is soft, intentional, loving, and glowing from the inside out.

Not-“that girl” who lives for the social media trend, where she is up at 5 am, with a matcha in her hand, just to prove that she can.

Being that girl goes far beyond being perfect, having a flawless face, or following a strict routine.

It’s being your best self by treating yourself as your number one priority, best friend, and yes, like a princess.

It’s reframing your mindset to cultivate healthy habits for the future you.

It’s becoming a woman who is aligned, radiant, and fully in tune with herself.

Here are a few things you can do to become that girl:

• Have a routine that feels good, not forced. I speak more about morning habits in my post Insanely Good Morning Habits to Feel Refreshed

 

• Nourish your body with kindness. So, no need for strict meals. Add one protein-rich meal to your day.

 

• Romanticize your life– dress up for yourself, savor your coffee, go for a walk.

 

• Make time for your passions. Here are a few slow living hobbies to change your life.

 

• Move in a way that feels good for your body. Do a ten-minute yoga session or go for a walk while listening to your favorite podcast. (You don’t need to hit the gym 7 days a week).

 

• Protect your peace by limiting your screen time.

 

• Be gentle with yourself. Take a day off when you need it.

4. Practice mindfulness

To add peace and presence to your day.

Now you don’t need to sit in silence for hours, mindfulness can be closing your eyes and taking three deep breaths, reflecting on the things you’re grateful for, or sipping your morning coffee slowly taking a moment to appreciate.

So, create a cozy space for yourself and make every ritual and every act of self-care an opportunity to center yourself and find peace of mind.

Now ain’t that the ultimate self-serving princess treatment?

Here are a few mindful activities to practice for inner peace:

• Gratitude journaling- write down three things you are grateful for
• Slow living hobby– try mindful hobbies like painting, baking, and knitting.
• Nature walking- go for a 5-minute walk, breathe in fresh air, and listen to the wind.
• Repeat positive affirmations to pull your dream life to you.
• Do a body scan- lie on your back, relax, and pay attention to the sensations.

5. Become a high-value woman

Who oozes with confidence and treats herself like a modern-day princess.

Whether it’s doing your morning skincare routine, tea-making, journaling, or getting dressed, do it slowly, beautifully, and intentionally.

Never settle and know your worth unshakably.

Never beg for attention, love, or respect — give it to yourself first.

Know that no one else needs to see that you’re valuable — do it for yourself, daily.

How to stay in your power as a high-value woman:

• Put your needs first before considering others
• Only date high-value men
• Walk away from anything that does not align with your standards
• Invest in yourself- go to therapy, journal, and stay committed to inner healing
• Never wait for a romantic partner to feel special. Gift yourself with softness, sweetness, and sparkle.

6. Do the things you’re passionate about

To remind you of who you are.

We tend to put our passions on the back burner, not because we don’t have any, but because life gets in our way.

Whether it’s your work, kids, bills, or to-do lists, they take priority.

But when you pursue the things you’re passionate about, you have a glowing-from-within kind of happiness.

You’re telling yourself that you “deserve to feel good”, – You are a princess in your world. 

Now, that’s pure self-love — and a true princess energy move.

Here’s how you can make time for your passions — even with a full schedule:

• Start with 5 minutes out of your day
• Add it to your daily to-do list
• Make it a part of your evening routine

7. Love yourself

When you’re messy, unsure, and still trying to figure it out.

Have you ever heard of the Justin Bieber song “Love Yourself”?

More often than not, we find it hard to show ourselves the same kindness we give to others.

Which is mainly the depth of what the song is about.

A good life starts with loving yourself.

And not just when life is going your way- you say the right things, or when someone gives you a pat on the back.

It’s when it’s life feels hard- when you’re making mistakes and nothing is going as planned.

It’s accepting yourself as you are. Flaws and all.

Here’s how to start loving yourself:

• Accept your imperfections
• Practice speaking kindly to yourself
• Say no to things that are not aligned with you
• Nourish, hydrate, and care for your body
• Forgive yourself and let go of the past
• Do things you’re passionate about
• Celebrate your small wins.

8. Become magnetic

Not by trying harder or being a people pleaser, but by being authentically you.

Magnetic women are not loud, perfect, nor do they seek attention. She’s just the best version of herself and is a true match for her desires.

Her energy and the way she carries herself show that she is deeply in love with who she is at the core, and she knows that she is a princess.

People feel her magnetism and are instantly drawn to her.

I dive deeper into how to be magnetic in my post, “How to be magnetic like a high-value woman.”

9. Activate your feminine energy

By being in flow with yourself.

A woman in her feminine energy doesn’t have to become anything, she just needs to bring to life what’s already inside of her.

A true feminine energy queen does not try to control, nor does she rush or chase her desires,

She knows that being in pleasure is her safe space, and she treats herself like royalty by creating beauty wherever she goes.

She lights candles to meditate, feeds herself nourishing foods, drinks plenty of water, and rests without guilt.

In my post “12 Things To Do To Activate Feminine Energy,” I explore how to activate feminine energy more deeply.

10. Be happy with yourself again

By caring for yourself and fulfilling your needs.

A true princess is happy with the woman she is.

She is a high-value woman who prioritizes her well-being and treats herself like a queen.

She sets aside time to engage in what lights her up. Whether it’s a relaxing bath, a facial, or a solo date, she makes time to recharge and pamper herself.

I dive deeper into how to be happy with yourself in my new post, “How to be genuinely happy with yourself again”.

Final Thoughts on giving yourself the princess treatment

Giving yourself the princess treatment isn’t an extra level of care, attention, and affection — It’s about honoring yourself with love, respect, and care. 

You’re teaching yourself to value your presence and acknowledge your worth, without waiting on someone else to do it for you.

Whether it’s through self-care rituals, becoming that girl, or activating your feminine energy, you show yourself the love you deserve. 

So, go ahead — give yourself the princess treatment, because you’re worthy of it all, inside and out.