How To Be Magnetic Like A High Value Woman (What I Did)

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Have you ever thought of what makes everyone want to talk to “that girl“?

That, there’s just something about her energy, and it’s not just the way she looks?

How can she just walk into a room and light it up with her energy, confidence, and mere presence?

Well, she has an irresistible energy, and it’s called a “magnetic aura”. 

A woman with a magnetic aura has become the best version of herself and is a true match for her desires.

Her energy is so polarizing that it instantly pulls people in. 

She acts, thinks, and moves, knowing everything is unfolding in her favor. 

Now, you can have the best clothes, makeup, and even glowing skin, but if you’re not magnetic like her, your dream life will not see you until you turn on your magnetism.

In this post, you will be learning how to activate your magnetism to get your dream partner, healthy friendships, career, and lifestyle. 

This post is all about how to be magnetic

What does it mean to be magnetic?

To be magnetic means having a captivating personality that attracts and charms others effortlessly. A magnetic person naturally has an irresistible presence or aura that draws people into their world.

The one thing that blocks magnetism

The one thing that blocks magnetism is “self-consciousness”.

Self-consciousness is the act of trying to control how you show up to others. When you are self-conscious it signals to other people that you are hiding and you are not trustworthy.

You feel the need to hide who you are using subtle cues, whether it’s the way you avoid eye contact when talking to someone you’ve just met, the tone of your voice, or your body language or posture.

When you drop self-consciousness you become more magnetic, which also makes people want to be themselves too.

To hone in on your desires, you must remove all self-conscious thoughts. 

The number one key is to stop being outward-focused and become more inward-focused.

Once you can do this, you become a match for your dream man and job, because you are a woman who is in tune with herself.

So learn to show up as you are, wear the outfit that you want, and say only what you truly mean.

A few tips to cultivate a high level of consciousness:
🌸Understand that people are not thinking about you as much as you think

🌸Be your authentic self. It is the most attractive and desirable trait you have as a woman

🌸Practice being kind to yourself. If you are self-conscious about your skin, how you speak and decide to change the belief by using positive self-love affirmations every day.

🌸Learn to release control

How to activate feminine energy to be magnetic

What makes feminine energy so magnetic is that it’s attractive, it’s flowing, and sensual. It’s just a natural flow of peaceful energy.

When you activate your feminine energy, you become truly authentic, which makes it easy for others to connect with you.

When you are in your Feminine energy flow, you are a match for high-value men and friendships because you naturally become more alluring, charismatic, and enchanting.

This energy will have men approaching from everywhere. 

Here are a few other reasons you want to become magnetic:

🌸You have meaningful connections with loved ones. Your magnetism will make your man feel like a king in your presence.

🌸You become naturally confident. You will enter any room with an energy that says, “ I am who I am and I belong here.”

🌸You become a feminine energy goddess. You embrace flow and pleasure, which makes others naturally want to be around you.

🌸You become authentic. You will start to own who you are at heart.

How To Become Magnetic

1. Make people feel important

The way you do this is if you are meeting someone for the first time, make sure you give them your full attention and eye contact without looking around at other people or your phone.

Show that you are interested in what they have to say, ask them open-ended questions about themselves, and believe that when they leave, they will leave feeling more confident, better about themselves, and thinking that they got it all together.

When someone makes us feel good about ourselves, we are naturally attracted to them. So, look at people as if they are the first person you have ever seen, and fall in love with them.

Give the energy that others are so amazing and it naturally comes back to you.

2. Learn to love yourself

Be bold in your level of uniqueness.

Whether it’s your fiery personality, how you speak, or your style. When you are bold in who you are 
feel confident to just be yourself and be authentic.

You will trust yourself and not absorb everything from around you. You are grounded in your decisions and who you are.

This is your highest form of self-love. 

When you learn to love yourself your body will know how to look for your own guidance rather than guidance from the outside.

You remove self-doubt, and others are naturally drawn to you.

Love yourself in everything you do. Whether it’s the clothes you wear, taking care of your hair, skin, and nails, or putting nutritious food in your body.

Always remember that a person who loves themselves is immediately more magnetic, when people look at you this is the first impression they get.

3. Don’t reveal everything

Not revealing everything about yourself is your superpower.

The reason most people are so magnetic is that they are so mysterious.

Their air of mystery leaves people guessing and pulls them into a fantasy.

People will stop in their tracks and try to figure you out.

So the next time you’re asked about something personal, smile and say,
“Maybe I’ll tell you one day…” instead of giving all the details.

You’re going to leave people wanting more.

4. Upgrade your appearance

Yes, your looks matter. It’s the first impression that people get about you.

When you look better by putting time and effort into your appearance you carry yourself different, your energy is different and you become a confident goddess who is deserving and grounded in her feminine energy.

You are magnetic and attract people to you naturally.

Tips to upgrade your appearance to be more attractive:
🌸Wear flattering dresses
🌸Take the time out of your day to style your hair

🌸Find your signature perfume that will turn heads once you step into a room

🌸Keep your hair, skin, and nails clean

🌸Try soft glam, feminine makeup looks

5. Activate your feminine energy

Your feminine energy is all about attracting and not chasing.

When you activate this energy, you turn on your internal glow that helps you to radiate with happiness, love, beauty and softness.

People are easily drawn to your soft demeanor, which makes you more attractive.

You are also emotionally open and truly focused on the present and enjoy every conversation with the person you are with in that moment.

You become the truest version of yourself- the confident girl who takes up space when she steps into a room.

Here are a few mindful practices to activate your feminine energy:

🌸Sit in stillness, listen to your breath, and feel your energy soften.

🌸Dance sensually and intuitively, do yoga, or take slow nature walks.

🌸Light candles, wear soft fabrics, apply luxurious lotion, or enjoy aromatherapy.

🌸Wear flowy dresses, delicate jewelry, or soft colors that make you feel feminine.

6. Have unshakable confidence

You want to have unshakable confidence because it naturally makes you radiate beauty from the inside out.

There is no one more attractive than a woman who knows who she is.

The number one key to unshakable confidence is to “never talk badly” about yourself.

Cut out saying things to yourself like “I’m dumb, I’m clumsy or I need to loose so much weight.

Every time you speak bad about yourself you affect the way you show up to others, so learn to believe in yourself and others will be drawn to you effortlessly.

Here are a few tips to have unshakable confidence:

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7. Be playful with life

People love humor and can always appreciate someone who has a natural zest for life.

Life is full of ups and downs, and when you don’t take it too seriously, you stand out as
a woman who finds joy in her passions and is afraid to let loose and flow with life.

Who wouldn’t want to be around such a happy, dynamic, and adventurous person?

Here are a few tips on being more playful:

8. Pay attention to your behavior

The way you behave reflects how you are on the inside.

Your body language and gestures shape how others perceive you, which is why you must pay attention to your behavior.

When you stand tall with your shoulders back and your head high, look persons in the eye when talking to them, and of course when you flash a warm smile it shows that you have a warm attitude that makes you instantly be more attractive.

This also means being less reactive or over-explaining yourself to others.

People are drawn to those who have a radiant energy and are comfortable in their skin.

A positive and confident demeanor makes you more attractive, magnetic, and desirable.

Subtle body language that shows excitement. It can be in your eyes how bright they light up, your body movement, and the way you are speaking. It shows that you are adventurous, excited and something mysterious is about to happen. People can feel this in your energy, and they cannot help but chase it.

Here are a few tips to improve your behavior to be more attractive:

This post is all about how to be magnetic

Final thoughts on how to be more magnetic

I don’t know about you, but I feel like I’ve just run a marathon writing this post.

I truly hope that you found my tips helpful and you’re looking forward to becoming a more magnetic woman who captivates and inspires others.

Also, if you haven’t realized it as yet, magnetism is easier than you think.

Thanks for reading, and I would love to know which tip you love the most.

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