This post is all about ways to be more feminine
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Welcome to True Feminine Diaries where I dive into all things feminine energy and personal growth for your soul.
I’m Tanika, a blogger and matcha fan girl who loves all things feminine energy.
I fell in love with feminine energy after coming across a video on YouTube that completely changed my life.
I’m on a mission to teach young women to bring their desires to life by embodying feminine energy.
Of late, I’ve been learning how to be more feminine and gentle. That’s what I want to cover in this post—I’ll break down ways to be more feminine and look more put together.
Let’s begin.
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This post is about how to be more feminine
1. Be more feminine with your style and fashion
Being feminine through fashion sounds obvious for women, but if you are not a girly girl, you struggle with choosing styles that reflect your personality.
I want you to know that you’re not alone.
Here’s how you can create a softer, more elegant, and effortlessly feminine style:
🌸Wear soft-flowing fabrics
Refine your wardrobe with soft fabrics like silk, chiffon, and satin. You can even add lace detail for a more glamorous look.
Look for soft fits in dresses, skirts, and blouses to accentuate your natural curves and make you look more graceful and poised.
🌸Opt for feminine color palettes
There are just some colors that are more feminine than others.
Color palettes with pastels, beige, blush, floral prints, and white, convey femininity, making you appear more warm and gentle.
Mix colors that naturally complement each other.
🌸Add delicate details
Add extra glamour by purchasing eye-catching pieces with lace, ruffles, bows, and pearls to make your outfit more sophisticated.
🌸Wear elegant shoes
Shoes can make or break your overall look. Well, according to me 🤭
👠High heels — makes you appear taller and elegant which naturally boost your confidence.
🥿Ballets — Gives you stylish comfort but still adds a charming feminine touch.
👡Strappy sandals — Did someone say summer? ballets are perfect for an airy feel during hot summer days.
Embellished flats — Paired with your favorite jeans adds a sophisticated charm to any look.
Espadrilles— Are the most versatile and my personal favorite. A staple to wear all year round.
🌸Wear soft hair accessories
Add a touch of glamour to every outfit by adorning your hair with cute bows, pearl clips, satin scrunches, and headbands.
🌸Wear your hair long, loose, and styled softly
Long loose curls are perfect if you’re wanting a more refined and glamorous look and feel.
Opt for voluminous or loose waves that frame your face, enhancing your eyes and cheekbones.
2. How to be more feminine with hygiene and self-care
🌿Keep your hair, skin, and nails shiny, and healthy
Taking care of your hair, skin and nails nourishes and brings out your femininity.
Making time for practicing a self-care ritual for healthy hair, strong nails, and glowing skin will boost your confidence and self-love.
Here’s a simple ritual to follow:
💆♀️For soft and healthy hair start using hair oil every single day.
Running your fingers through your hair will keep your hair smelling delicious all day.
💅Keep your nails healthy and clean by trimming them regularly, and applying a nail strengthener rich in vitamins.
You can even apply Vaseline around them to prevent them from cracking.
🧴Keep your skin moist and flawless by drinking plenty of water, moisturizing every day, and putting on sunscreen to protect your skin from the sun.
🌿Hydrate and nourish your body
Meal prep for the week, limit sugary foods, and drink eight or more glasses of water every day.
Why?
Because wholesome, nutrient-rich foods channel the flow of energy and deepen your appreciation for your body.
Eating nourishing foods also boosts your mood when you’re feeling low.
🌿Prioritize oral health
A feminine woman has a confident, radiant smile.
Brushing your teeth, flossing, using mouthwash, and getting regular dental checks are not only for a bright smile but also for a confidence boost and helping your femininity to shine through.
3. How to be a lot more feminine with your posture
🌸Have a soft feminine posture (no slouching)
One of the easiest ways you can radiate femininity is by keeping your posture straight and avoiding slouching your shoulders.
Practice standing elegantly and if you’re sitting, sit with a straight back and your chest slightly lifted.
Don’t try too hard, keep it natural—avoid looking stiff.
This way you protect your spine and look more at ease and confident rather than looking like you’re forcing it.
🌸 Move your body gracefully
Moving your body gracefully looks like taking smaller steps, swaying your hips naturally, using gentle hand gestures, and gliding your feet rather than stomping.
You might feel awkward at first, but once you practice often, it will become more natural.
Hint: Check out this video on how to improve the language and posture of your hands.
🌸Have an open and approachable body language
We all have times when we avoid going up to someone because they have their arms crossed.
This posture naturally tells us that this person is closed off or upset.
That is why having an open and approachable posture is a wonderful way to radiate feminine energy.
Practice opening your arms and body to have a warm body language.
Smile when you see someone walking up to you and lean slightly forward when talking to someone to show interest.
3. How to radiate femininity with your behavior and mannerisms
🌸Speak softly in a feminine tone
If you’re a loud talker, manipulating your voice with a soft tone will make you sound warm and show off your sensuality.
A soft tone also adds a touch of gentleness to your conversations.
It conveys kindness and makes you sound more feminine.
🌸Make eye contact with warmth
It sounds silly but a soft gaze into someone’s eyes shows them that you are a warm and loving person.
That’s right —A soft gaze is an expression of your openness, and genuine interest, which is crucial to fostering connections with others.
🌸Offer compliments (uplift others)
Whether you know the person or not, when you compliment someone you radiate kindness and generosity.
This gesture also brightens someone’s mood and uplifts yours as well.
Always remember that complimenting others does not take away from you— there’s enough beauty, talent, and love for everyone to shine.
🌸Be playful
I love dancing to Shakira music in my room and just letting loose.
What’s something you feel silly doing but it makes you so happy and free?
Whether it’s dancing, singing, or playing in the sand, playfulness does not mean you are childish — it’s about letting go of your inhibitions and having fun with life.
So don’t care too much about how you look— embrace silly moments, like dancing in your room, laughing out loud at something funny, or even flirting with your boyfriend.
🌸Smile more often
Smiling makes you effortlessly more feminine.
A feminine woman always has a big smile that naturally draws people in.
This means you need to smile with your eyes all big and googly 😊
This might sound silly, but trust me, smiling is contagious.
When you smile, it shows that you are warm and approachable.
It also encourages others to smile, creating a ripple effect of positivity and joy.
4. radiate femininity with your beauty
🌸 Soft glam makeup looks
Did someone say natural and polished?
I love makeup, but I always believe that less means more when it comes to looking more feminine with makeup.
To look naturally beautiful, go for soft glam makeup looks.
This look softens your facial features, which makes your face look flawless every time.
For a soft and elegant look, opt for a luminous foundation, shimmer or neutral tone eyeshadows, dewy skin, rosy cheeks, gentle contour, nude or peach lip, and of course classic reds are timelessly feminine.
🌸Hairstyles
I keep my hair looking feminine by going for a chic messy bun with bedazzled hairpins.
I find it so easy to do, especially when I’m working from home.
Some other feminine hairstyles you can try are: alluring soft curls, a classic bob, a braided up-do, or a sophisticated half-up, half-down look.
If you have natural curls, aim for a style that makes you feel most confident and yourself.
🌿Start a morning skincare routine for glowing skin
If you want to get soft, healthy skin, it’s time you start a skincare routine that keeps your skin youthful all day!
I love skincare so much and I religiously practiced this morning routine for glowing skin.
A simple routine: 🍋💧Drink a glass of lemon water every day to hydrate, 🧼gently cleanse, tone using a 🌿alcohol-free toner, brighten with 🍊vitamin C serum,🧴 moisturize and of course protect your skin from the sun with a broad-spectrum SPF 30-50 🌞
🌿 Start a nighttime skincare routine
A nighttime routine is perfect for having lifelong radiant and healthy skin.
It also great for keeping your skin looking and feeling fresh and healthy in the morning.
A simple routine: 🧴gentle cleanse with a oil cleanser or micellar water to dissolve makeup, dirt, and SPF, follow up with a gentle foaming or cream cleanser 🧼 to remove any leftover residue, go back in with vitamin C 🍊 – If you didn’t use it in the morning, it can work at night too, go in with moisturizer to keep skin plump overnight, 🌿apply eye cream, and lip balm 💋.
🌸Find your signature scent
Did someone say perfume?
I’m obsessed with feminine perfumes. The smell of a classic floral or vanilla fragrance is all I need to feel soft, beautiful, and feminine.
While it’s a personal choice, floral and vanilla perfumes celebrate femininity and give a girl a signature of elegance.
Try vanilla and floral scents to boost your femininity: jasmine, daisy, chance eau tendre, Gucci bloom, flower bomb, Prada candy, tobacco vanille, and Guerlain spiritueuse.
🌸Wear soft jewelry
Jewelry sounds so obvious, but it’s something that can be overlooked especially if you don’t wear it often.
Personally, your outfit is never complete without jewelry.
Now, you don’t need specific jewelry for every outfit, you just need a few signature accessories to add a touch of personal style to every outfit you choose.
Go for subtle jewelry like necklaces with dainty charm, delicate studs, pearl earrings, or hooped earrings and small intricate bracelets, rings, and rose gold watches.
My favorite color to get my jewelry is rose gold, but you can opt for a gold classic watch, a dainty necklace in gold, a charm bracelet, and chic stud earrings.
5. Be A Feminine Goddess with your man
🌸Let him lead
Be receptive to your man by appreciating his efforts, whether big or small.
Now, it doesn’t mean that you are not a high-value, capable woman who cannot get things done.
It’s about making your man feel valued and showing him that you support him 100%
So next time, when he leads, accept his gifts, let him open the door for you, carry your bags, and plan romantic dates.
🌸 Let him miss you
Be his peace when you’re not around.
I love letting my man miss me by giving him space while I pursue my passions and do a bit of self–care.
Having my passions makes me even more feminine to him and it encourages him to pursue me even more.
🌸 Encourage him with love
Actively listen when he speaks and give lighthearted suggestions and positive reinforcement that inspire him rather than criticize his efforts.
Reassure him that you love him and you believe in him.
Let him know that you trust him and that he will work things out.
Final Thoughts
By following these helpful tips to become a more soft and feminine woman, you will massively level up your life.
You’re on track to become a divine feminine woman by leveling up
Your health, appearance, and relationships.
Your femininity is your superpower.
Embrace it with love and softness.
Nurture it and bring it to life.
Always remember: “A woman in her feminine energy doesn’t chase—she attracts effortlessly”.
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