How To Create Your Dream Body

This post is all about how to get your dream body

Now this question might come off as rude, but I’ve gotta ask.

“Do you have your dream body right now?”

I can proudly say “I did not”, eight months ago, so I can relate if your answer is a hard “No”.

Now I’m not talking about the body that comes up in your feed of girls who weigh 120 pounds, have abs, and work out every day of the week.

Even though there is nothing wrong with that (if that’s your thing)

I’m talking about the “dream body” where you love every part of yourself.

Not just your body, but who you are.

When you look in the mirror, you don’t find yourself cringing, criticizing, or slightly looking away.

Now, I was this girl several months ago, and I struggled so much with smiling at the girl in the mirror or even acknowledging her.

I was so critical of my looks that sometimes I wished to be someone else.

Of course, I would watch health gurus and content creators talk about how they got in shape, but their tips didn’t work for me.

After trying to get my dream body for three years, I felt I did not have the willpower, was not strict enough on myself, and was ‘not trying hard enough’.

I felt this way for a very long time.

Not until I change the way I see myself and decide to listen to my body’s needs.

I stopped trying to change my body and focused on the relationship I have with myself.

Once I consciously decided to see myself as a woman who cares for her body, I activated my feminine energy, and naturally, my dream body came with it.

If you’re a girl who feels like most days your body works against you, rather than for you.

I’ve got you, girl.

After reading this post, you will no longer see yourself as someone who struggles with her body or self-image.

I will gently guide you to create your dream body from the inside out by leaning into your feminine energy and doing inner work.

Let’s dive into all the details.

This post is all about how to create your dream body.

What Is The ‘Dream Body’?

The dream body is not about having the perfect size or shape, but the body you feel most yourself in. 

It’s the body you move intuitively in, treat with kindness every day, feel confident living in, and the body you’re not afraid to listen to and nourish.

Your dream body feels like energy when you wake up, like peace around your food, like listening to your body, and like being kind to her every chance you get.

9 Gentle Disciplines To Get Your Dream Body

1. Decide That You’re Allowed To Have Your Dream Body

You don’t need to cut yourself off from all of your favorite foods or start on a 1200-calorie-a-day diet to get your dream body.

You just have to fully decide that you get to have it.

And this starts with you saying “Yes” to choosing to feel good in your body.

And once you decide that you get to have your desire, this decision will change your life.

It will give you permission to feel confident in your skin and stop feeling stuck and hover in self-doubt, but see your dream body as something to nurture and soften into rather than something to fix.

 

2. Recite Feminine Energy Affirmations Every Day

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I do this every morning.

It really works.

The more I repeat these affirmations, it changes my inner dialogue changes from “I should be doing better now” to “I get to care for and love my body every day”.

Here are a few to recite every day:

“I am allowed to feel good in my body.”
“I release pressure and choose gentleness.”
“My body moves with me, not against me.”
“I move with grace, ease, and confidence.”
“My body enjoys being cared for.”
“My body softens when I listen to it.”

Whisper them to yourself in the mirror, carry them with you throughout the day, or write them softly in your journal before bed.

3. Let Go Of Your Belief That Healthy Food And Exercise Are Boring

Tip: Make it fun by lighting a candle while you eat or playing soft music while you stretch or going for a walk.

 

4. Decide How You Want To Feel In Your Dream Body

Instead of visualizing the perfect dream body, focus on how you want to feel living inside it every day.

Do you want your dream body to feel light, nourished, energized, present, rested, or confident?

When you know how you want your body to feel, your choices become intuitive, and you start listening to your body rather than comparing it to everyone else’s.

You stop fighting to be someone else, and feel comfortable and safe in your own skin, to soften into your body instead of judging it.

 

5. Love Your Body Right Now

Loving your body doesn’t start after it changes; it starts today.

It starts when you stop seeing it as a project to fix, but as something alive and worthy of care, like a beautiful garden you tend to with love.

How?

By watering it every day, giving it sunlight so it can get the energy it needs, and patiently waiting for it to bloom.

So quit punishing yourself.

Eat foods that you love when your body craves them.

Move in ways that make your body feel good (dance, stretch, go for walks) and rest when you need it.

When you nourish your body with the nutrients, self-care, and kindness it needs, your body feels safe, and it responds with ease.

 

6. Nourish Your Body (Savor Every Bite You Put In Your Mouth)

Before putting anything on your plate, ask yourself, “Am I loving my body right now, or am I punishing it?”

If you’re choosing foods that make you feel light, energized, and cared for, then you’re supporting your body, but if you’re eating heavily processed foods that lack the nutrients your body needs, you’re keeping your body in a low-energy state and away from your dream body.

Now, this doesn’t mean that for every meal of the day, you have to reach for a healthy snack; you just need to add in your leafy greens and food options that are nourishing.

I was the girl who ate because I felt bored and too rigid, but after choosing to nourish my body for several weeks, not only did my cravings fall off naturally, but I also started to lose weight without even trying.

And yes, you too have your dream body.

You can support your body by connecting to it rather than controlling it.

Here are a few healthy sweet and savory snack ideas to try:

• Greek yogurt with berries + drizzle of honey

• Apple slices with almond or peanut butter

• Banana with nut butter + cinnamon

• Cottage cheese with pineapple or peach

• Avocado toast with sea salt or olive oil

• Hummus with carrots, cucumbers, or bell peppers

• Apple slices + cheese

• Peanut butter toast with banana

• Yogurt + granola + berries

 

7. Use The 80/20 Rule (Go Easy On Yourself)

Are you treating your body like a dumpster?

This question might come off a bit harsh, but I’ve got to be frank with you.

Now, I did not ask you this question to shame you or make you feel guilty.

I am asking you this question to wake you up to awareness.

Do you eat mostly processed foods, eat when you’re full, constantly snack, or always put off your weekly prep?

If your answer is yes, you’re treating your body like a dumpster without even noticing it.

You’re coping, instead of caring for your body.

And here’s where the 80/20 rule comes in.

It starts with you choosing foods that nourish your body 80% of the time and enjoying food purely for pleasure for 20% of the time.

This rule will help you to quit restricting yourself, dieting, and binge eating, and remove your limiting beliefs around food.

 

8.  Move Your Body Gently

Moving your body gently when you wake up isn’t lazy.

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It’s intuitive.

And for you, it could be the missing piece to feeling good in your body again.

That’s right, we sometimes underestimate the pleasure of gentle movement, even if it’s just for 10-20 minutes of light movement.

I’m a big believer that working out doesn’t have to be intense to be effective.

It just has to feel pleasurable for your body to naturally shift into it each day.

Daily walks, slow yoga, mindful stretches, or even a few minutes of slow dancing in your room all count.

 

9. Eat Intuitively

If you’re a girl like me, at that time of the month, your body craves sweet and savory food ( chocolate, ice cream, banana, berries, and the occasional fries)

This is your body sending you a signal telling you what it desires.

Let go of the guilt and savor whatever your body decides is in need in that moment.

You don’t need to restrict yourself from the things you love; you get to eat for comfort by connecting to your body.

And when your body feels safe and at ease, it naturally moves toward balance.

 

Final Thoughts: How To Create Your Dream Body

Contrary to what you might think, getting your dream body is not about you changing the way your body looks.

It’s about changing how it feels to live inside it.

It took me a very long time to truly understand that the journey to my dream body isn’t about perfection or willpower.

It’s about creating safety in your body so it can relax, regulate, and respond naturally.

And the most beautiful part?

You don’t need to wait until your body changes to love it.

Loving your body now is all you need to get your dream body.

So choose one habit, one mindset shift, one moment of kindness toward yourself today.

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