How To Level Up And Become Your Dream Woman

The only reason you haven’t become your dream woman right now is that you haven’t decided to be her.

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If you need a push to level up your life, start a new chapter, and become your dream woman, this post is for you.

Every decision you make is compounded. This means that every action you take throughout your days will either bring you to a path of success where you are your dream self or keep you exactly where you are.

Maybe you decide to press snooze instead of waking up and going to the gym; over time, this small action adds up and forms an unhealthy habit.

You decided to choose laziness over hard work and getting your body moving so you can feel and look better.

So, decide that you want to be the best version of yourself with every decision you make from this point on.

 

What is the “Dream life”?

The dream life is not just an accomplishment or a perfect aesthetic- It’s a life that feels like you. It’s created day by day through choices, beliefs, and boundaries.

 

How To Become Your Dream Woman

It’s only delusional until it’s done.

You get to create the life of your dreams, and your life gets to be as amazing as you want it to be. It only sounds unrealistic until you do it because that’s how life is.

 

• You decide and commit

Becoming your dream woman will not happen by chance. It’s not just about you saying, “I’m going to start eating healthy” or “I’m going to love myself.”

It’s going to take an identity shift, it’s you changing your personality by listening to your intuition.

It’s you deciding within. You permitting yourself to step into your next level.

It’s you surrendering, letting go of control, relaxing, and leaning into flow.

Once you’ve made your decision, it will activate your path and you’ll create a new way of showing up for yourself and never have to rush orbe indecisive again.

 

• You discipline yourself with love

The truth is, you don’t need to be harder on yourself; you just need to have pure self-love.

Celebrate yourself, love your flaws, nourish your body, and speak kindly to yourself.

When you love yourself, it’s you saying, “I deserve a body that feels good”, “I value my time”.

You’re able to choose what you are no longer available for in your life.

Whether it’s thinking badly about yourself, being indecisive, having unhealthy habits and routines, etc.

You become so disciplined in your behavior even when you’re uncomfortable.

It’s you becoming so devoted and loyal to the woman you’re becoming.

You let your habits be rooted in self-compassion and self-respect.

To get started with discipline, start small by keeping a promise to yourself.

If you say that you’re going to take a 10-minute break from social media, follow through but with grace.

So if you fall off, no shame, just return.

 

• Practice being her every single day

The easiest way to be your feminine energy is to practice her rituals and habits

Not on days when you feel like it
Have more time
Or once you get everything done.

Be her today. As you are.

So, wear her outfits
Borrow her makeup
Romanticize your life daily
Move you body
Speak confidently like her
Say no with grace

Live as her now and embody her energy.

• You stay devoted to your vision

Fall in love with becoming her. Becoming deeply loyal

Even when you’re in doubt, stay consistent and keep showing up even on the hard days because the dream is more sacred.

Become so obsessed with her that she will start to live within you and guide your choices.

You become devoted to her by remembering she already lives within her, so you’re not chasing her but coming back to her.

• You hold onto the life she desires

Desires fade when we forget about them, and this is why you have to make them daily rituals to stay connected to them.

Ground the desire to become your Dream woman by reminding yourself with divine whispers. Say to yourself:

◦ “Even on the slow days, I’m still becoming her.”
◦ “I wouldn’t have this desire if I weren’t meant to be her.”
◦ “Even now, I can feel her within me”

 

Habits to eliminate to become your Dream woman

• Distracting yourself

It is distracting you from becoming your dream woman.
Learn how not to distract yourself. We distract ourselves from things we do not want to get done. What this looks like is distracting yourself with limiting beliefs, overeating, and scrolling social media.

You’re distracting yourself so much so that you never, along with your thoughts, are alone with your emotions; it also looks like procrastination; you push things off and distract yourself from getting things done.

There is a deeper root to why you are not getting the things done, it’s never because you’re just tired, lazy or you don’t feel like it.

The solution for this is sitting with yourself, journaling, meditating, taking the time to think of the emotion you’re feeling uncomfortable with, and what it is that you’re trying to avoid.

Distracting yourself is distracting you from becoming your dream woman. The path that you’re on when you are facing your fears, when you are facing your emotions that you usually push off will look completely different.

• Having a victim mindset

It is usually rewarded by society.

We are usually in competition, the worst, who is in the most trouble, who is suffering more, or who has the worst body.

It’s like we are competing to be a victim.

Until we break the habit of being the victim, we are going to constantly create a reality in which we are the victim and suffering. Because when you have a victim mindset, what it means is that you desire to suffer.

What you believe, you receive.

This looks like complaining a lot, trying to gain sympathy, or constantly talking about your problems.

The first step is being self-aware and grateful.

Catch the words that you say and notice when you are trying to get sympathy from people.

• gossiping

When you gossip, you lower your vibration massively, and it always makes you look bad.

When you choose not to talk badly about other people, you will have a clear conscience and don’t have to worry if the person knows you’re talking about them. You also have friends who trust you because they know you’re talking about are someone who will never talk behind their back.

You will also attract high-quality people and experiences.

Habits to adopt to become your Dream woman

• Get ready every single day

Life is way too short to wait for a special occasion to do your hair, makeup, or put on a good outfit.
Let’s say you choose to spend 20 mins doing your makeup or your hair, it puts you on a different path for that day.

When you put the effort in getting ready, you show up with a higher vibration.

When you care and invest in yourself, it puts you on a different path in life. I talk more about this in my blog post on how to become a more feminine and gentle woman.

• Become the luckiest girl alive

There is no set rule on life, you create what life gets to look like.

Life gets to be beautiful, easy, it gets to be fun.

What you believe you receive.

Create a mental picture of your ideal self, how is she treated by other people, how is she dressed and how does she spend money.

• Make decisions that your future self will thank you for.

If you want to get your dream body make the decision to want nutritious plant base foods rather than eating fast food.

Do the things that are the delayed gratification, yes, they will be painful at the moment, but they will bring you that successful, vibrant future.

10 seconds of discomfort is so much better than a lifetime of regret.

Habits To Pull Your Dream Life Right To You

1. Have an intentional morning routine that you’ll love

Imagine waking up every morning to a routine that anchors you into your dream woman energy by keeping you present, grounded, and at ease.

Instead of rushing out of bed and immediately diving into your to-do list, ask yourself, “What would my dream woman be doing today”?

Because anyone can follow a morning routine for a week…but your dream woman is not just anyone. Her routine is more than a mere habit. It’s her lifestyle. 

An intentional identity shift, not some random tutorial you found on YouTube.

Start with a ritual that gently grounds you. l start with 5 5-minute meditation.

This keeps my thoughts quiet to get a few extra minutes of calm for myself.

Let’s say you love (reading, journaling, reciting affirmations, break work, yoga, etc.), start your day with an intentional practice that will help you to be more present with yourself before diving into the chaos of the world.

Enjoy this time with yourself and

2. Act like it’s already yours

Your dream woman is not somewhere in a faraway future, it’s in you deciding and showing up as her.

The truth is all you need to become your Dream woman is you doing the things you know she would do.

This looks like- walking into a room with her confidence , dressing up as her, speaking the way she does, making decisions she’ll be proud of and being confident and happy with yourself.

Now, this isn’t about pretending. It’s about remembering that she is already in you.

You are already living the best version of yourself, and it will become your new reality.

3. Prioritize pleasure and play
The more you lean into what lights you up is the more you pull your dream to you.

Make time for the things that bring you pure joy- laugh and don’t hold back, dance like no one’s watching, paint, draw, and bring your creativity to life.

Remember joyful childhood-moments and lean into them because becoming your dream woman is not about becoming someone new but remembering who you’ve always been- fun, playful and easy.

4. Say no to the things that don’t align with you
Not every invitation is in your best interest.

There comes a time in your life when you have to protect your energy.

Saying no is not about being harsh all the time.

It’s about protecting your choosing yourself by protecting your peace and letting go of things that no longer make you feel safe- habits, routines, people, the old version of you.

It’s about choosing a life that reflects your new path to becoming your dream woman.

5. Visualize your dream life every day
To know that it’s possible once you choose to break the habit of your old self and become a new you.

Now, visualization is not just daydreaming or pretending to already have your dream life. It’s about rewiring your mindset, focus, and energy to feel it, believe it, and eventually live it.

As a high value woman, your dream woman is already inside of you. All she needs is your attention, belief and vision to live as her, for the rest of your life.

When I started to see images that reflects the habits and routines I desired for my life I began to belief it was possible.

The way I did this was crafting my dream life vision board which inspired healthy habits and routines that anchored me on a more intentional path each day.

Take a quiet moment and ask yourself:
Who is my dream woman?
How does she wake up in the morning? How does she walk, talk, dress, and move?
What does her day look like?
What energy does she give off?

Reminder: Create a vision board and keep your vision board somewhere where you can see it- on your phone or computer to help you retire your mind.

6. Let go of limiting beliefs

That’s holding you back from thinking, moving, and being your dream woman.

Those sneaky thoughts that you’re not smart enough, I’m not ready yet, or I don’t deserve this, which are just not true.

They are just limiting thoughts that keep comfort zone and from creating your dream life.

The truth is, you can shift out these limiting thoughts and become your dream woman.

Now, this is not about changing or fixing yourself; it’s about remembering who you are.

That girl who is intuitive, full of life, walks into a room with her head high and creates her dream life because she believes in herself.

You shift out these limiting beliefs by catching them when they show up, repeat it with a new belief that you know is true about yourself and affirming that new belief.

“I’m too emotional- ‘My emotions are my strength”
“I have to earn love- “I am worthy of love just the way I am”.

7. Surround yourself with expansion
You become what you’re around and vice versa.

Becoming your dream woman is about getting comfortable with being around people and in spaces that level up your mindset and identity and help you to let go of the things that stop you from becoming your dream woman.

Get into a book club where women uplifts and empowers each other, read books together, follow other women who inspires you, share their passions and interest with each other and hold each other accountable to grown and change.

8. Romanticize small wins
We’re taught to celebrate “big moments” that we’re proud of- like buying our dream car or finding the perfect partner.

But what about those tiny choices that led to those big wins?

They matter just as much.

Let’s be real, big dreams take time, and your dream woman knows this.

That’s why she knows she should never miss a moment to acknowledge and romanticize the now, even if it’s imperfect.

Whether it’s following through on what you said you’ll do, caring for your body, getting enough rest, or even a slow morning routine.

Light a candle, do a happy dance, give yourself a high five, or smile at yourself in the mirror. You can even write an “ I am proud of myself” note to yourself.

This shifts her into abundance and reminds her that she is already her dream woman.